It is often said that parents are the first teachers of their children, which shows how far-reaching the influence parents have on their children.The environment in which the child grows determines the future life of a child.

It doesn't care about rich or poor, but about the development of character and habits, seriousness and even outlook on life. Among them, the role of mother is the most important. The influence of mothers on children is huge. A good mother is better than a good teacher. So what should we do as mothers?

1. Lead by example, teach by words and deeds

It has always been the expectation of parents to hope that children will become dragons and daughters will become phoenixes. For children, the best family education is not these endless classes and endless studies, but teaching by words and deeds. Many parents do not do well in this regard, and are often stricter than the law and treat others leniently. Education is a long-term thing, and when parents educate their children, they need to do themselves well first. If parents can't do things themselves, how can they ask their children to do them?

2. Do not interfere too much with children

Many parents always impose their own ideas on their children, which is wrong. Children are people with independent meaning, and are not subject to the will of their parents. As mothers, we don't "manage too much" with our children and leave a little space for them.

3. Don’t be a pessimistic and negative mother

As mothers, we are influencing our children all the time, and our every move, every word and deed are seen by our children. Therefore, we cannot be a pessimistic and negative mom. As mothers, we should be optimistic and positive. When our children are frustrated, we should not tell them about all kinds of bad possibilities, but give them full encouragement and positive energy.

4. Original family theme, improve parental relationship

It is difficult for us to change our parents, but we can change ourselves. Native family theme, help us create a beautiful native family for our children.

5. The theme of happy marriage to improve parent-child relationship

Problems in parent-child relationships mirror problems in intimacy. The way we get along with our children is deeply imprinted with the model of the marriage relationship. The happy marriage theme helps us improve our relationship and rediscover the feeling of love.

6. Be proactive and motivate each other

Everyone likes motivated people, and children have vanity themselves, and they also hope that their parents will continue to improve and achieve results. A motivated parent is the child's hope, because self-motivation is the basis for parents to achieve success, and parents who work hard are the pride of their children, because every child does not like his parents who do not seek to improve.

In daily dealings with children, parents should be good at expressing their love for their children, and often say love to their children, so that the children will also be positive, have a sound personality, and be full of love for the world.