A lover refers to both a man and a woman or one party in a relationship. This is an ethical love relationship, different from the ethical relationship of marriage.

Marriage is an ethic of control, with the intervention of the controlling party, and love is a voluntary ethic without the intervention of the controlling party.

Lovers are sacred to a certain extent because, on a certain basis, they should be interpreted as two people in the purest state of mind, without any distractions, wanting to be good to each other.

How couples get along:

1. Be good friends.

Every time we meet, there are endless topics to talk about and feel that sharing is a kind of enjoyment.

2. Establish the same values.

It can also be said to be a worldview. When your worldview, outlook on life, and values ​​are the same, when you are together, you will avoid a lot of unnecessary friction, because you have similar ideas for doing things.

3. Learn to pay for each other.

Love takes effort, but many people just want to gain. In fact, as long as you pay, you will gain. Two people who are willing to pay for each other are very suitable to be together.

4. Learn to be tolerant.

Tolerance is a virtue, especially for couples, there will always be a lot of friction when two people live together. If you don't understand tolerance, then your relationship will slowly die from friction.

Lovers are taboo:

1. Make the other person suspicious of your thoughts.

When there is something, you don't always say it clearly and let the other party guess. If the other party does not guess correctly, they will doubt whether the other party does not have him in his heart.

2. Only look at each other's shortcomings.

There is no perfect person, everyone will have some deficiencies. If you talk about his flaws a lot, even close people will think you don't like him.

3. Take love for granted.

A relationship requires two people to work together. Don't think that the other person should do everything for you. If you only think about these, the relationship between two people will become very tiring.

4. Unwilling to understand and tolerate each other.

Because of some trivial things that lead to quarrels, no one agrees, there is no understanding and tolerance between each other, let alone accommodate each other, then quarrels will become a habit. Often the ending is unsatisfactory.

5. Don't expose each other's scars, because that's pointless.

Conflicts will always emerge in an endless stream, and quarrels may also be an unavoidable problem between many lovers. But no matter how intense, please don't bring back the bad past, because there is no point in it other than more pain.

Love is not addition and subtraction, please don't follow the steps